Robert Anton Gollwitzer

Seelsorger. Berater. Aktivist. - Politisch. Katholisch. Leidenschaftlich.


You Tick Me Off !!

Posted on December 17, 2016 at 2:00 PM

Funny how sometimes Christians use spiritual-sounding words when they actually want to say you tick them off... Why don't you just say what you mean ??

Pointless Discussions

Posted on December 17, 2016 at 1:10 PM

Another thing that ticks me off: fruitless and pointless discussions where people just want to be right. I cut them off right away - on facebook and in real life. I have no need for drama in my life.

Wanna-Be Psychologists

Posted on December 17, 2016 at 1:05 PM

One thing I really dislike is when someone acts like a wanna-be psychologist and tells me about what I am feeling and why - according to their view. Not everyone that disagrees with you has an emotional problem.

Emotions and Facts

Posted on December 17, 2016 at 10:25 AM

To tell someone in a discussion to leave away emotions when talk about facts is absurd and scientifically nonsense. First, it is impossible to discuss without emotions. Second, it is not a bad thing to have emotions. They have many functions. Only one of them: they help us remembering things better. Whoever tells someone else to "stop being emotional" basically surpresses and denies his own emotions. They then seek another hole to come out. One example: If someone steps on your foot with high heels, it is a good thing to let the anger, frustration and hurt out - like by yelling and screaming. If you pretend nothing happened, the emotions will find another way. Example: you then write an "intellectual" book about why high heels should be forbidden.