Some churches have become religious clubs where like-minded people meet to have a good time and get affirmation by those who have the same mindset. If that is all you do, however, and if giving and supporting one another is only for those within your own community, you miss out on the Great Commandment (go OUT, make discuples and baptize them!) and the Great Commandment (Jesus made no condition for reaching out to others. His love was unconditional and selfless). Such a "church" deserves nothing less than to die.